5 THINGS EVERY WOMEN WISH DURING SEX

No Women matter how into each other you are, relationships will see sex peaks and valleys. It’s easy to fall into a rut or resort to 'solo time' during one of those droughts. But let's kick-start that steam with the most pleasurable things to do to a woman to maximize sexual pleasure. The women orgasm is more complex than yours and the key to great sex is finding what best works for her to get off. Clitoral stimulation is incredibly important, but don't discount deep penetration. Sex therapists indicate cervical orgasms (achieved via vaginal penetration) are less common, but can yield more intense orgasms due to the deeper penetration.

1. Pay attention to her non-verbal signs during sex

Sadly, lots of men don't know how to tune into their female lovers. “I hear stories over and over again about how men are just not responding to the signals that women send. Along with verbal expression, pay attention to their bodily cues (moaning, heavier breathing, increased lubrication) and do more of that. If you're not sure how to interpret a signal, be direct and just ask. “[Try] 'Does that feel good?' or 'Do you like that?' or 'Does that hurt?' Your partner may have been too shy to tell you, and will appreciate that you asked,” says Weisman. Likewise, if you're not sure if your partner is ready for a certain act or move

2. Explore Commonly Ignored Hot Spots

A woman wants a man to explore her inside and out with his fingers, and make it an adventure for the two of them. “‘Let’s see if I can find your G-spot,’ for example, could be a mutual exploration for the couple,” says Dr. Gilda. Be sure also to fondle with and kiss often-ignored erogenous zones like her inner thigh, ear, and even her lower back.

3. Clitoral Stimulation

Yes, guys, we want more of it. “Some of like it with a two finger or three in her ass or vagina at the same time. You can also try strong sucking, teasing with your tongue, or using your nose and forehead for pressure on the clitoral area.Try different amounts of pressure, rhythms, and duration of time to see what she likes best for many women, direct contact on the clitoris can be too intense, although they may like rhythmic pressure on the clitoral shaft — the part of a woman’s clitoris that swells when she’s aroused.

4. But Make Sure She Comes First, and Again

We have the ability to climax multiple times. And that means that your job as her partner is to make sure that women have more of those orgasms. “Many people don’t realize that 70% of us need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. So, yes, you'd be correct in thinking that you can't just rely on penetration alone to get her off. Rather, consider accessory and toys into bed to help you get into that right position or angle, and find what you both like best.

5. Be Spontaneous During Sex With Her

Women like surprises, especially the sexy kind. “Surprising your girlfriend or wife with something that shows you care about her while also showing how sexy you think she is can win you major points, Some ideas beyond lingerie: knee high socks, a silk robe, or a racy nightgown. When a woman knows you bought something for her while thinking of how hot she'd look in it, it also may inspire her to be a little more adventurous next time she finds herself shopping for naughty underthings. Or, try gifting her a sensual shared activity like a couples massage or passes to hot yoga to check out together.

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